this is a story about a meek little girl who was destined to take birth on women's day.
in ninth or tenth year of age when ur birthdate becomes an as important day as an national holiday for u,this little girl discovered "oh am born on womens day"
a women born on womens day...a girl then...she felt special....
to have such an important ocassion on ur important day the birthay was treat for her...from then on wishing every girl and women she knew "happy womens day ' as they wished her ' happy birthday' was a routine....also many people loved it when they knew her birthday falls on womens day and congragulated her for it..soon a sense of pride of being born on such a special day came to the girl...
on one such birthday her school teacher when he came to know it was her birthday ,he called he wished her ,,she thanked ...he said' u are happy arent u being born on womens day?' she replied "yes"."very very much".
he said "see its good u are happy being born on womens day ,,but do u even realize that this country that we live in its not much to be happy being born a girl,,,there are female infanticides,rapes,domestic voilences,lack of education and opportunity for a girl child even at times lack of "two proper square meals".."and it has a society in which women being so usedd to injustices done to them and so soul-less and meek to fight against it these very women become devils for other women who try to rise ahead of the social norm...'beti' if not a 'boj' as regarded as many is at best 'paraya dhan'.we live in an hypocratic society dear ,while we have our godesses of knowledge, wealth worshipped our girls are treated 'secondary' in every aspect...u are indeed lucky as u feel for being born on womens day and u should be ofcourse happy for being born on womens day...but i would love to see u happy and successful and satisfied being a women ,inspite being a women,and giving every other women too a joy of being a women''
"know that u do have the opportunities that many of your sisters in this country dont,,do not waste them and be disgraceful to god"
Sunday, May 29, 2011
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
tighe janni
blogspot var pahilach post marathit kinva to be specific english madhe lihilelya marathit lihit aahe.normal chat var vaparle janare bhasha!!
communication sadhla gela mhanjee jhalla ha ekkach udessh ,me hya particular moment la most comfortably assach mix language madhe lihu shakte and hence i am,vachnaryala majkoor va bhavna kalyya ki jhala ,tya sathi me majha vocablary var tan deun to writing flow ghalvu ichit nahi..
6 varsha aadhi ammhi tighe bhetlo, amchatli ek doghinchi common friend aslya mule..tenth chi suuti dhammal karaycha tharavlela ,tyat avdi hi ek sarkhyach!Movies,patte aani khanna.Mag teghincha tiggada jammu lagla,,dahavicha suuti 24 tas darroj aashi aamhi ek mekin sobat ghalavle .....kay karaycho?
............mahit nahi.......vel kasa jaycha kay mahit........patte khelaycho,pic baghaycho,kkhaycho ...dombivlit lya javal javal saglya thikanne ammcha hindoon va khaun jhalela.
pudhe 10th cha result lagla.teghin madlya doghi science la ek commerce la asa gelo.mag 12th nantar me engg la dushre pharma la geli.........saglyannche marg vegle,constraints va pressures vegle,
tyat swabbhavala hi tighe aadhi pasunach veglya hoto ....and over the 6 years each of us had to face very different situations.......konnala lonliness,konnala parental loss ,konnala family problems,konnala college problems,konnache commitment issues ,konnache breakups,konnace aajar ,unexpected blows!!
tighe hi well aware asto about issues faced by all,aagdai utun problems solve karatla jaana ek mekinche nahi shakya hot nehmi,pan te share karnya itka comfortt nehmich rahila aahe,,,advices hi jya melalya tya sahaj delelya hotya, varchasva sidha karayla ,toomne marayla kinva dominate karayla kadhich navhtya..........may be coz tighehi aapaaplya space madhe itkya comfortable assto ekkatra aastana ki theres no room for any mess,
asa nahi ki its always been ideal,,,pan ajuun tari 6 years hence bhandlo nahoi ahhot ,,madhe cold vibes hote on my part ,,pan tari hi tya nantar parat jevha tyanchat gele tevha adhi sarkha vatla,,,,10th cha suuti sarkha....mulat parat javasa vatla!!!
adheche issues ekda bollun mokle jhaloo tevha te parat aale hi nahi!!!
meanwhile ekda amhi amcha ya 6 years madhe jhalelya ittar friendships badal boolo,,,,anni saglyanncha mhaana eekach padla ki emotional attachment tya level paryant gelich nahii.very emotional situations aasun hi...ka ?
kadachit jevha tighincha to tigada jamla it was out of a very pure emotion of joy,,masti ,,enjoyment..amhi ekach salet kinva coolege madhe hoto mhannon jolvoon ghetleli nati navhti ti ,,,,it had formed on its own coz and only coz we loved each others company,,,sakali 6 30 vajta 10th cha suutit roj uthun morning walk la ka jaycho?bhetavas vataycha mhanoon!!!aani k avataycha?
amhala ek mekin kadoon kahich melnar navhta!!!
phakt nikhal enjoyment ,,,,panchat jokes va gaappa sodun....
kal ratri hi jevha ekki kade rahayla geloo,6.30 paryant jaglo,,,kay kela ?
2-4 madhe just "marley and me" ha pic pahila
pan bakicha vel phakt gaapppa marlya ...kashavar ....saglya vishavvanvar married life kashi assel hya var ,,,kutranncha avdatya breed var , star world var cha serials var ,,chees cake aani cold coffee var ,,job kasa va kuthe karava ya var ,,amhch abava bahinnin var...family var ....friends var ,,,rashhin var ,,,hindi gannyan var ,,,shipa sheety ne lip surgery keli aahe ki nahi tya var ..cat cha exam var
eco kiti pakau aahe tya var...
sakali 6 30 te 9 30 jhoplo jhopun uthlya var gadditach punha gaapa suru konnal apahili jag kevha aali ya cha var hi!!!
bolnnya sathi share karava kahi tujha sobat hi icha lagte "'topics va vishay nahi ""
nahi tar ekkach thikaani shiknnarya ,kamm karnarya lokanna hi bolayla kahi topics melat anhi ...topics nehmich aastat ...icha nehmich aasel asa nahi!!!!
i remember me dada la ekda mhanaleli ki' ya porrina close geli titki kadhich konnacha close nahi jhale'....he said quite well,,,, ki ekhada relation mag te prem aso kinva maitri ...tyala nirman hoyacha aasel tar te hotach ,,,,te tumhi nakko mhaoon talo skakat nahi ....anni hava mhanoon ekhada nat aapan diplomattically vagun nirman hi karoo shaakat nahi!! it has to be there!!
communication sadhla gela mhanjee jhalla ha ekkach udessh ,me hya particular moment la most comfortably assach mix language madhe lihu shakte and hence i am,vachnaryala majkoor va bhavna kalyya ki jhala ,tya sathi me majha vocablary var tan deun to writing flow ghalvu ichit nahi..
6 varsha aadhi ammhi tighe bhetlo, amchatli ek doghinchi common friend aslya mule..tenth chi suuti dhammal karaycha tharavlela ,tyat avdi hi ek sarkhyach!Movies,patte aani khanna.Mag teghincha tiggada jammu lagla,,dahavicha suuti 24 tas darroj aashi aamhi ek mekin sobat ghalavle .....kay karaycho?
............mahit nahi.......vel kasa jaycha kay mahit........patte khelaycho,pic baghaycho,kkhaycho ...dombivlit lya javal javal saglya thikanne ammcha hindoon va khaun jhalela.
pudhe 10th cha result lagla.teghin madlya doghi science la ek commerce la asa gelo.mag 12th nantar me engg la dushre pharma la geli.........saglyannche marg vegle,constraints va pressures vegle,
tyat swabbhavala hi tighe aadhi pasunach veglya hoto ....and over the 6 years each of us had to face very different situations.......konnala lonliness,konnala parental loss ,konnala family problems,konnala college problems,konnache commitment issues ,konnache breakups,konnace aajar ,unexpected blows!!
tighe hi well aware asto about issues faced by all,aagdai utun problems solve karatla jaana ek mekinche nahi shakya hot nehmi,pan te share karnya itka comfortt nehmich rahila aahe,,,advices hi jya melalya tya sahaj delelya hotya, varchasva sidha karayla ,toomne marayla kinva dominate karayla kadhich navhtya..........may be coz tighehi aapaaplya space madhe itkya comfortable assto ekkatra aastana ki theres no room for any mess,
asa nahi ki its always been ideal,,,pan ajuun tari 6 years hence bhandlo nahoi ahhot ,,madhe cold vibes hote on my part ,,pan tari hi tya nantar parat jevha tyanchat gele tevha adhi sarkha vatla,,,,10th cha suuti sarkha....mulat parat javasa vatla!!!
adheche issues ekda bollun mokle jhaloo tevha te parat aale hi nahi!!!
meanwhile ekda amhi amcha ya 6 years madhe jhalelya ittar friendships badal boolo,,,,anni saglyanncha mhaana eekach padla ki emotional attachment tya level paryant gelich nahii.very emotional situations aasun hi...ka ?
kadachit jevha tighincha to tigada jamla it was out of a very pure emotion of joy,,masti ,,enjoyment..amhi ekach salet kinva coolege madhe hoto mhannon jolvoon ghetleli nati navhti ti ,,,,it had formed on its own coz and only coz we loved each others company,,,sakali 6 30 vajta 10th cha suutit roj uthun morning walk la ka jaycho?bhetavas vataycha mhanoon!!!aani k avataycha?
amhala ek mekin kadoon kahich melnar navhta!!!
phakt nikhal enjoyment ,,,,panchat jokes va gaappa sodun....
kal ratri hi jevha ekki kade rahayla geloo,6.30 paryant jaglo,,,kay kela ?
2-4 madhe just "marley and me" ha pic pahila
pan bakicha vel phakt gaapppa marlya ...kashavar ....saglya vishavvanvar married life kashi assel hya var ,,,kutranncha avdatya breed var , star world var cha serials var ,,chees cake aani cold coffee var ,,job kasa va kuthe karava ya var ,,amhch abava bahinnin var...family var ....friends var ,,,rashhin var ,,,hindi gannyan var ,,,shipa sheety ne lip surgery keli aahe ki nahi tya var ..cat cha exam var
eco kiti pakau aahe tya var...
sakali 6 30 te 9 30 jhoplo jhopun uthlya var gadditach punha gaapa suru konnal apahili jag kevha aali ya cha var hi!!!
bolnnya sathi share karava kahi tujha sobat hi icha lagte "'topics va vishay nahi ""
nahi tar ekkach thikaani shiknnarya ,kamm karnarya lokanna hi bolayla kahi topics melat anhi ...topics nehmich aastat ...icha nehmich aasel asa nahi!!!!
i remember me dada la ekda mhanaleli ki' ya porrina close geli titki kadhich konnacha close nahi jhale'....he said quite well,,,, ki ekhada relation mag te prem aso kinva maitri ...tyala nirman hoyacha aasel tar te hotach ,,,,te tumhi nakko mhaoon talo skakat nahi ....anni hava mhanoon ekhada nat aapan diplomattically vagun nirman hi karoo shaakat nahi!! it has to be there!!
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